Husbands and Wives

I am still going with B.Katie, last session
was about husbands and wives. One man had
story like:"my ex wife lies when she tells
me that she loves me and want's to be with me".
So after some more questions it came that he
would be ecstatic boy without this thought
and looking forward to be left again if she
will find another man :)

The other part was work with a couple who
was in the room, so Katie was giving questions
to both of them simulatously, althought it
was woman who came to the sit and started the
process. Her story was:"My husband should listen
to me" and "He needs to be clear in communication
with me". She was angry and yelling at him when
she belived her story. Because her husband was
sitting next to her and was listening, Katie proposed
that he would say "thank you" to any complain she
is sharing with him, next to it she asked woman to
speak directly to him. At the end of a process she
invited everybody to make exercise with eye contact
and watching what kind of stories are running in our
heads and than ask this question:"who would I be
without my story?". That was some novelty, never heard
about this exercise before. Methapor for this was:"that
is perfect communication, no words are necessary" :)

I did my own work on:"B.Katie is heavy", you probably
guess by now who is heavy, hahahhahahhahaaa :)


love & Light