There was Byron Katie again yestarday in the form of an audio tape with title as stated above. Here comes to my mind the thought which she often repeates:"forgiveness is seeing that what you think has happened, didn't". She was working with three women, all of them had problems with relationships and again and again it came out that they were seeing outside what wasn't there, it was just themselfs. One lady had a lot of grievances to God and Katie was turning that around also on her, like for instance:"God needs to give me intimate realationship, which I asked Him for" turned to "I need to give myself intimate relationship which I asked myself for". Then she was saying that the deeper you go into "the work" the more you see that anybody who comes your way is a perfect mate, because it is yourSelf. When there was issue of sex she just stated that it is enought to be straight and honest:"do you want to have sex with me?" and there is yes or no, if you invite somebody to cinema or restaurant and have this intention to get some more from them, then perhaps that can be manipulation and lack of honesty from your side. Of course five minutes later answer can be different then now, but it is now which is important and integrity and honesty now is the key. Two ladies were crying and it was pitty that I couldn't see it. I felt that video transmission has this advantage over audio that you can see fully emotional comunication happening, for it are not only the words that matter.
be in Peace
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